Do Hard Things: Why We Get Resilience Wrong and the Surprising Science of Real Toughness

This document was uploaded by one of our users. The uploader already confirmed that they had the permission to publish it. If you are author/publisher or own the copyright of this documents, please report to us by using this DMCA report form.

Simply click on the Download Book button.

Yes, Book downloads on Ebookily are 100% Free.

Sometimes the book is free on Amazon As well, so go ahead and hit "Search on Amazon"

"In Do Hard Things, Steve Magness beautifully and persuasively reimagines our understanding of toughness. This is a must-read for parents and coaches and anyone else looking to prepare for life's biggest challenges." -- Malcolm Gladwell, author of Outliers and Talking to Strangers and host of the Revisionist History podcast

From beloved performance expert, executive coach, and coauthor of Peak Performance Steve Magness comes a radical rethinking of how we perceive toughness and what it means to achieve our high ambitions in the face of hard things.

Toughness has long been held as the key to overcoming a challenge and achieving greatness, whether it is on the sports field, at a boardroom, or at the dining room table. Yet, the prevailing model has promoted a mentality based on fear, false bravado, and hiding any sign of weakness. In other words, the old model of toughness has failed us.

Steve Magness, a performance scientist who coaches Olympic athletes, rebuilds our broken model of resilience with one grounded in the latest science and psychology. In Do Hard Things, Magness teaches us how we can work with our body – how experiencing discomfort, leaning in, paying attention, and creating space to take thoughtful action can be the true indications of cultivating inner strength. He offers four core pillars to cultivate such resilience: 

  • Pillar 1- Ditch the Façade, Embrace Reality
  • Pillar 2- Listen to Your Body
  • Pillar 3- Respond, Instead of React 
  • Pillar 4- Transcend Discomfort   

Smart and wise all at once, Magness flips the script on what it means to be resilient. Drawing from mindfulness, military case studies, sports psychology, neuroscience, psychology, and philosophy, he provides a roadmap for navigating life’s challenges and achieving high performance that makes us happier, more successful, and, ultimately, better people.

Author(s): Steve Magness
Edition: 1
Publisher: HarperOne
Year: 2022

Language: English
Pages: 320
Tags: Personal Development; Self-Esteem Development; Resilience Development; Toughness Development

Contents

Cover
Title Page
Dedication
Introduction: How We Got Toughness Wrong and Where to Go
Chapter 1: From Tough Coaches, Tough Parents, and Tough Guys to Finding Real Inner Strength
Chapter 2: Sink or Swim: How We Took the Wrong Lesson from the Military
The First Pillar of Toughness: Ditch the Facade, Embrace Reality
Chapter 3: Accept What You Are Capable Of
Chapter 4: True Confidence Is Quiet; Insecurity Is Loud
Chapter 5: Know When to Hold ’Em and When to Fold ’Em
The Second Pillar of Toughness: Listen to Your Body
Chapter 6: Your Emotions Are Messengers, Not Dictators
Chapter 7: Own the Voice in Your Head
The Third Pillar of Toughness: Respond Instead of React
Chapter 8: Keep Your Mind Steady
Chapter 9: Turn the Dial So You Don’t Spiral
The Fourth Pillar of Toughness: Transcend Discomfort
Chapter 10: Build the Foundation to Do Hard Things
Chapter 11: Find Meaning in Discomfort
Acknowledgments
Notes
Index
About the Author
Advance Praise for Do Hard Things
Also by Steve Magness
Copyright
About the Publisher